Capturing Memories: How to Choose the Perfect Family Photographer

Family photos are more than just snapshots—they’re time capsules. The silly grins, the tiny hands, and the shared laughter are moments you'll treasure forever. Choosing the right photographer to capture your family’s unique vibe is key, and it can actually be fun if you approach it with a little planning. Here’s how to find the perfect match for your crew!

This year it was so much easier to just do pictures at home!

Photo by Shawna McDuffie

1. Define Your Style

Do you love the elegance of posed studio portraits, or are candid, lifestyle shots more your speed? Some photographers specialize in soft, natural light with a dreamy, romantic feel, while others thrive on playful, high-energy sessions outdoors. Browse portfolios to see what resonates with your heart.

2. Set the Scene

Where do you feel most at ease as a family? Is it snuggled up at home, exploring a local park, or walking downtown with your favorite city landmarks in the background? Once you have a vision, find a photographer whose work aligns with your dream setting.

I ❤️ all things OKC and so choosing Wheeler was a no brainer for photos in 2023. photo by Shawna McDuffie

3. Look for Personality

Your photographer should be more than just a pro behind the lens—they should also know how to connect with your family! Do they seem patient, good with kids, and willing to embrace the chaos that comes with wrangling little ones (or moody teenagers)? A quick consultation can reveal if their vibe matches yours.

4. Don’t Skimp on Research

Check reviews, ask friends for recommendations, and peek at social media. Happy clients and glowing testimonials are great signs. If your friend’s Christmas card blew you away, don’t hesitate to ask for the photographer’s name!

Photo by Kayla Patten 

5. Budget Wisely

Family photos are an investment, and it’s worth prioritizing quality. Be sure to understand what’s included—prints, digital images, or packages—and plan accordingly. A good photographer will make you feel like every penny was well spent.

Make sure you feel comfortable!

Shawna McDuffie took these photos for the Real Producers magazine and made me feel like a rockstar! After this photo Shawna said this was THE ONE that would be my favorite. She was so right!

6. Plan for Fun

The best family photos happen when everyone feels relaxed and joyful. Coordinate outfits in complementary colors (but skip the matchy-matchy look), bring along some snacks for the kids (and maybe the adults, too!), and let your personalities shine.

Remember, the right photographer will do more than just capture your family’s image—they’ll tell your story. Whether it’s the giggles of your youngest or the way your teen sneaks a smile, every detail matters. With the perfect photographer by your side, those fleeting moments will be preserved forever.

Happy memory-making! 📸

Here is the list of a few of our favorites who have taken our photos over the years!

Shawna McDuffie https://shawnamcduffiephotography.com/

Kayla Patten https://kmpphotography43.mypixieset.com/

Laura Eckel https://www.instagram.com/lauraeckelphotography/

Photo by Laura Eckel